Chacos: Advocacy for transgender few does not take rights away from the many
Some individuals claim the LGBTQIA+ population is sinful, harmful, and broken. The Roaring Fork School District disagrees and developed a plan to support their LGBTQIA+ students from further ostracism, demonization, and ignorance against a backdrop of survey results and national statistics indicating this population is at a dramatically increased risk for depression and suicide compared to their peers. These are the facts.
WHAT IS LGBTQIA+?
The letters LGBTQIA+ are often used as an umbrella term for the community as a whole. Lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, questioning, queer, intersex, asexual, pansexual, and allies are new definitions for many of us, but they are not new ideas. At least 7.1% of U.S. adults identify as something other than straight or heterosexual, according to a 2021 Gallup report. Chances are, you have a loved one who identifies as LGBTQIA+. That’s the math.
WHAT IT ISN’T
Negative sexual experiences are routinely misrepresented for political gain and fuel religious agendas. Deviant behaviors and assaults are knowingly distorted and then quickly spread by bigots. This recently happened in Virginia, when a boy wearing a skirt brutally assaulted a classmate. The boy violated the girl in the restroom, and the issue twisted until it became about the rights of transgender students using restrooms where they identify. There was no correlation between the assault and a transgender student. None.
There is zero evidence to support the claim that gender non-conforming students pose a greater risk to the health or safety to the rest of the student body. For those still in denial, study after study confirms there is nothing dangerous about letting people use the bathroom or locker room that matches their gender identity. Kids don’t generally have sex in bathrooms; they vape. But, that’s a topic for another time.
Simply put, anti-gay propaganda spread lies:
- There is no link between homosexuality and pedophilia.
- Homosexuality is not a matter of individual choice, said the American Psychiatry Association back in 1994. Research further suggests homosexual orientation is in place very early in the life cycle, possibly even before birth.
- Being gay does not mean you molest children at a higher rate, raise children in a harmful home, or that people become homosexual because they were sexually abused as children.
GENDER, SEX, AND SEXUALITY
Learning the difference between gender, sex, and sexuality will not make anyone gay or trans. This is as absurd as stating I’m transitioning to a unicorn because I talk about unicorns, I respect unicorns, and I own a unicorn fanny pack.
Gender is a set of behaviors, qualities, and activities we assign to a person based on the anatomy that presents itself at birth. Gender expression is limitless. Worldwide and throughout history, we know people express gender identity in many ways and can be fully-accepted, thriving members of their community. Gender identity is shades of gray, not black or white.
An individual’s sex is not their gender. Sex is referred as to the biological characteristics of a person, such as their sex organs, hormones, and chromosomes. As many as 1 person in 100 has some form of disorders of sex development. Science doesn’t lie; we do.
Sexuality is sexual orientation. According to Medical News Today, there are 11 labels to identify someone’s intimate, romantic feelings. When someone’s sexuality doesn’t align with the beliefs of the adults in their lives, feelings of isolation and depression make death seem like a better alternative. Don’t force heterosexuality; it doesn’t work.
WHAT IS INCLUSION?
Inclusion is empathy, respecting differences, and uniting anyway. Inclusion drives opportunities for healthy social development, promotes a collaborative culture, has economic benefits to the community, and results in better organizational outcomes, according to a report from McKinsey & Co. Therefore, “We must take bold steps creating inclusive, resilient, quality education systems fit for the future,” said the UN Secretary General, António Guterres, in 2020.
True education encourages diversity of thought. Exclusion is its antithesis.
WHAT INCLUSION FEELS LIKE
Being called the wrong name or regularly mispronouncing your name is frustrating. Ask any Karyn, Kristen, or Kersten. Honor chosen names and pronouns, even a Dick, although I prefer Richard. It’s their identity, not yours.
Additionally, kids just want to play where they feel most comfortable. Their sense of belonging may be with the gender with which they identify. Be the transformative coach that teaches the benefits of sports both on and off the field. Then, do it without bias.
The rights of many are not being taken away by advocating for a few. But, if someone’s politics, religion, or cultural ideals get in the way of decent humanity, families are welcome to homeschool or send their child to a private or parochial school. The state of Colorado even gives tax credits for doing so.
Andrea Chacos lives in Carbondale. The Colorado Sun is a nonpartisan news organization, and the opinions of columnists and editorial writers do not reflect the opinions of the newsroom. Read their ethics policy for more on The Sun’s opinion policy and submit columns, suggested writers, and more to firstname.lastname@example.org.