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Sex & Relationships for Week of May 30

Sex & Relationships for Week of May 30Relationships are definitely an issue this week, especially in terms of love and pain, heartache and heartfelt. We are all feeling and confronting the lack of love we have had and wanted, including the lack of love we have given ourselves.So it is a time to see that they did not give us the love we wanted and needed and that hurt – a lot. And now we can give ourselves the love we want and need and so free ourselves from emotional dependency in and on other people and relationships with them.It means we can get to a place where we are OK with or without the love of another person. From that place we can then really have love and value with and from others, and have healthy loving relationships. That is a huge freedom.The risk is that we can take the pain and use it to prove that there is no love, and to justify not opening again to love, because that first means opening to the pain we carry in our hearts.Numbing that pain may protect us from pain but also stops us having love and shuts us down as loving creatures, dehumanizes us and leaves us dead and still walking. Not worth it. Much better to face and release the pain and open our hearts to love and aliveness again. Is that not the core challenge of life? 2004 Tomas GregoryAND do remember to visit tomasgregory.com for more Daily Astrology


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